Jeff
2003-09-07 04:46:30 UTC
Hello,
I have an unshakeable feeling that my very existence is somehow an
error, and that I should not be alive. Probably many people have such
feelings; however, I was wondering if anyone in this group has any
ideas on shaking this feeling, or at least being able to counteract it
somewhat.
Some context might help. I have had depression all of my life (I'm
31). Last December I was hospitalized (for the first time) for about
2 months due to suicidal thoughts. Since my release I have been on
medication, seeing a few doctors and an occupational therapist, and
doing cognitive behavioural therapy and meditation. I've been doing
well for the past few months, some minor mood swings, and no major
depressive episodes. My social anxiety has also reduced.
I am coping quite well day-to-day, but I have no concept of "the
future". When my doctors ask me where I see myself in a year, or even
a few months, my first thought is "dead". The idea of being alive in
the future is incomprehensible.
Does anyone else feel this way? If yes, how do you deal with it? If
you used to feel this way, how did you stop it? Any ideas would be
appreciated.
Thanks
Jeff
I have an unshakeable feeling that my very existence is somehow an
error, and that I should not be alive. Probably many people have such
feelings; however, I was wondering if anyone in this group has any
ideas on shaking this feeling, or at least being able to counteract it
somewhat.
Some context might help. I have had depression all of my life (I'm
31). Last December I was hospitalized (for the first time) for about
2 months due to suicidal thoughts. Since my release I have been on
medication, seeing a few doctors and an occupational therapist, and
doing cognitive behavioural therapy and meditation. I've been doing
well for the past few months, some minor mood swings, and no major
depressive episodes. My social anxiety has also reduced.
I am coping quite well day-to-day, but I have no concept of "the
future". When my doctors ask me where I see myself in a year, or even
a few months, my first thought is "dead". The idea of being alive in
the future is incomprehensible.
Does anyone else feel this way? If yes, how do you deal with it? If
you used to feel this way, how did you stop it? Any ideas would be
appreciated.
Thanks
Jeff